I found a helpful list at Bethgem this week. This simple list of seven things gently spoke to me. I was reminded that I have let a few things go…namely #1…Look Pretty. How easy it is to stop doing this all important feel-good-duty of the day. Inspired by this list, here’s my version:
My husband has been on leave from work due to illness for a much longer time than anticipated. Thus, the importance of me looking pretty and the house looking pretty has fizzled as an unwelcome guest has taken up residence groaning, “Who cares!” I am determined to rid my home of this unwelcome guest. “I care!” I holler back, “This is my home, and you are no longer welcome!” Time to kick the humongous, doom-n-gloom, dark cloud of Depression out. Who’s with me? Yes, I could use some help with this dirty job.
The title of my list is “Reclaiming”. I am keeping “look pretty” as #1 also. Thanks, Bethgem for the encouragement!
1. I Look Pretty (morning devotions, exercise, shower, dress, hair, make-up)
2. Fresh Towels are hung in the bathroom (my husband has commented on how this makes him feel good).
3. Laundry
4. Meal is planned for tea (evening meal here in Australia).
5. Clear “Catch-All” table.
6. Fresh Cover on couch.
7. Relax and enjoy the evening with my husband.
These are my list of seven simple things that I hope will dispell the Depression that has been looming about my home these past months.
Any encouragement is welcome!
Mm, fresh towels. I try to do that every day, too. Thanks for sharing your list!
Wow, that’s a list I need as a reminder. Thanks~I really enjoyed this post.
Ooh, this list is a great idea! I’ll be praying that you stick to your list and reclaim the joy in your home, I’ve definitely been there myself.
Try spending alone time with your husband outside of the house. Think about what you two like to do together, or at least what you used to like to do together. When my husband and I were dating, before we got married, we enjoyed bicycle-riding together. Hard to do now with small children, but it’s worth the hassle of finding a babysitter and driving into the city. Find something active and outside.
I like your blog! When I’m down, two things lift me up – saying aloud the things for which I am thankful, and listening to praise songs. Usually, I barely get through my list of thanking God for my husband and kids and I already feel better!